They melt me....
My sister in law says that she want to quit being a mother of Hayato (2nd nephew). A while ago, he cut the bottom of foot with a piece of grass, and then a while later he got a crack on the leg bone... And yesterday...., he injured a very expensive car by hitting with riding bicycle.... Fortunately he didn't get injured this time!
She said she will send him to me! OOOOHHHH, hope it come to be true. ha ha.
Hehe he sounds like a boy! They are all oh so cute!! But I love a challenge...poor Hayato!
ReplyDeleteI bet he will be someone amazing when he grows up. Well if his mother does not kill him first! hehehe! The baby and big brother is so cute too! I wish her all the luck in the world....she's going to need it!
Loads of best wishes.
Rane
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Hi Rane,
ReplyDeleteYEEES, I guess that is the boy!! I heard another story that Hayato draw a wound on his body to surprise adults saying "I got injured!". My sister-in-law is worrying a little about he may become a liar in future. ha ha!
I have 6 kids...I can tell you
ReplyDeletehe is just being a middle child.
He is seeking attention because
he is no longer the baby.
Having him being the big helper
and asking him...not telling
him for help. But if he or big brother do help then they need
to be praised or thanked and told
what a great job they have done.
So if he does not choose to help
but big brother does then he
is the one who get the praise....see?
Then when Father comes home then
momma tells all the great help he has been to her. No talking about
the things he has done wrong.
If you give him the wrong attention then he will think that is the best way to get some attenion. I know your sister is
a good momma...and her husband is
a good papa. It is just hard to be a middle child. My 3rd child was like this. After I gave lots
of attention and bragged about
her, then she lived up to my praise. I think that he will be
fine.... he just wants your sister
to care and love him too, and still.
Also tell him please get the daiper for your baby. (not baby brother either, make him know that
the baby is his. Tell him that he
was his older brother's baby and
his little brother is his. Tell him that he needs to watch his so he does not get hurt. If he has such an important job then he
will care...see? At first he may
not..but keep it up.
It is hard to be the middle child...(*^_^*) I promise that
lots of love and being told good job for the good stuff he does and dont talk about the bad stuff tomuch then he will live up to it!
He will want to do and be a great boy!
*(My husband is Japanese and I
am German but lived in the U.S.
since I was 3.)
Gambatte kudasai!!
Loads of love to you and your
sister and her family.
Rane
Hi Rane,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing all of the information about kids...! I don't have any children, so all I felt it is part of his personality. Actually my brother was like him (almost the same appearance too), but my mother just kept mad at him, so I think he stopped it. But he was beloved in our neighbor and anywhere until he graduated elementary school. After that, he started to bother her by doing bad things. I think he learned so many things from those experience, now he owns his company, I respect him.
I believe my brother knows very, very well how Hayato feels. They are really similar at everything.
I will told my sister-in-law what you told me. She said that "even I tell my husband (my brother) all wrong about Hayato, he just laughs and adores him." ha ha.
She seemed feeling something from your words, so I think she would try to what you told me :)
Arigato gozaimasu! :D